Settling In

The past few weeks have been filled with unpacking, job searching, hiking, and generally getting settled. I wish I could say we've unpacked everything, but I can't. Since we haven't really had a summer in over 16 years because we've been in school, teaching summer school, or on contract, I think we've enjoyed being without agendas and timelines for a couple of weeks.  That's all coming to an end, however, as I make revisions to an article to get it submitted and plan for my classes in the fall. I'll start on those things next week so we hope to get finished with our unpacking (or most of it at least) this weekend. Jeff has a few job interviews in the next two weeks, so we have our fingers crossed that something pans out.  It's quite different here when it comes to finding a job, but he's done a great job of putting his resume out there and pounding the pavement to meet people.  Having left an area of people who knew him well and his abilities as a leader and moved to an area where we know nobody, we're both thrilled that he has interviews for administrative jobs.  Just interviewing will even get him "known" so that's good news. We were told that many of the questions will be "situations" and we had to ask ourselves if there's really anything that they can throw at him that he hasn't handled in the past 11 years as an administrator ... especially considering the entire town here is the size of just the school district we left. Amazing.
Thomas is adjusting well. He has a few "moments" here and there but overall he's very happy. There are a few things "at play" with him. First, he's always wanted a summer where we were all home together and he didn't have camps, caregivers, etc. and now he's got it ... and he's anxious and needing mental "stimulation" constantly. He has voluntarily washed off the sidewalks, washed the dishes, washed the clothes, washed the deck with a sponge on his hands and knees, and much more. These things are all in the midst of the many activities we do as a family and stopping to play games together. Whew ... the boy is intense! He has recently taken up riding his scooter again.  We even got him a Malibu scooter this week with bigger wheels so it goes faster down the hills.  The second thing "at play" with Thomas is leaving so many friends behind and not making any here yet. I don't know why, but the children here are "to themselves" in many ways. I've signed him up for VBS at the Lutheran Church this coming week. We missed the Catholic one.  He's also signed up to go to Zoo Camp in early August.  I think he'll meet friends at these places. Thomas has also always been a very "anxious" child with a lot of emotional intelligence and that has begun to manifest even more as his new school year nears. He talks a lot (nonstop) and is very "clingy," not wanting to be in a different room from us. All in all, though, he's doing well with the change and is very happy. He loves to hike and go to the mountains, so hopefully once we get past the interviews for Jeff, etc. we'll be able to take time and get in the mountains on a camping trip.
    Our second night here was July 4th. We spent it on the neighbor's roof watching the most beautiful fireworks we've ever seen. It's aptly titled, "The Biggest Show in Idaho."   Our neighbors are really nice (older couple with grandchildren) and are sweet to Thomas. We met the neighbors on the other side today and they are also grandparents who seem to really like Thomas as well.
    We closed on our house in Conroe this week so it was a relief to put "to rest" one of the big "things" about this whole transition. Once Jeff finds a job, we'll really be "settling" in.  The closing has gone relatively smoothly and I'm happy for the young couple who purchased 21 Lancelot ... they got a great home with super neighbors ... neighbors we miss dearly.
     Our neighborhood is great for walking with wonderful, challenging hills. Thomas loves to ride the hills on his scooter so the three of us mapped out a 2 mile trail and we take it at least twice daily. Hopefully we'll walk off some of the pounds we've put on in the past year or so. Thomas is a great motivator ... begging to go on a walk throughout the day. The weather's perfect here all day for a walk, so there's really no excuse.
     It's bright here! The sun rises around 6:00 AM and sets around 10:00 PM. Our entire "pattern" was thrown off and we're just now adjusting to a new one. It's 11:30 here right now and when I lived in Conroe, I would have been asleep long ago! We sleep with the windows open to allow the 50 degree temps to fill our house at night ... love it! With the open windows, though, comes bright sunshine in our faces in the mornings! I love that, too. Jeff ... not so much!
    Shopping here is a bit different. It's not crowded!!!  The clerks and checkout folks are so friendly and attentive to shoppers' needs! I went to the mall today (only 2 anchor stores ... Sears and JC Penney) and there was nobody there! I was in and out in no-time with exactly what I needed. I'm not a huge shopper to start with, so this suits me! I do like to have access to high end clothing, so I'll need to figure out where to find that here, but all in all, love it! Walmart never has a rush! It's busy ... but there's no rush and no rude people running over you! Nice. Oh ... the funny one for me was the carwash! My car was full of mud so I pulled into what I thought was a full service car wash ... not so.  Patrons vacuum their own vehicles then pull through to the next station ... where one is handed a towel and a bottle of cleaner to use as they help you drive onto the track of the automated wash. The cleaner is to be used by the car owner while in the automated wash. Once the car is through the wash ... a couple of college kids towel dry it. I felt so incompetent at the car wash! Crazy! At least they were friendly ... all I say is "I'm new here, I just moved from Texas," and people give me all kinds of help ... thank goodness! It's the little things, you know?
      Pocatello has a fabulous farmer's market. We already have a Saturday routine! We start at the farmer's market, then to Elmer's (a 60s style diner that serves an awesome all-American breakfast), and wrap up at A Fish off the Old Block for fresh meats for the week. We are loving the transition to organic and fresh foods.  With that, I'll close ... because tomorrow is Saturday and I want to be ready to get to the market early ... we didn't get there until 11:00 last week and they were sold out of many things I hoped to find.  So ... it's off to get rest.
    

 

Almost there!

Tonight, we are in Green River, Wyoming.  It's a cozy mountain town that seems to be on the verge of making the transition from a simple small western town to a "yuppy"-type river rafting hangout.  

The past two days on the road have been long, but fairly uneventful. We've driven through beautiful country and done so with little hassle.  Only two "hiccups" with vehicles so far. The UHaul needed oil added today and the new car's tire pressure light stays on which is no big deal. We've got it so loaded, it's probably tripped something. Jeff checked the pressure in the tires and it's fine. And, while I fumbled for the number to the Uhaul place,  Jeff popped up the hood of the Uhaul and took care of the oil ... nothing the guy can't do!

The dogs have really done well on the trip and also at the new hotels each night.  We will have to have Jeff's truck "detailed" when we get settled, though ... the dog hair is unbelievable. German Shepherds shed constantly and I am the privileged driver of the truck with the dogs :) Lots of sneezes!

Jeff is tired from driving the Uhaul through the mountains, etc. but we are both anxious to get to Pocatello, so adrenaline is getting us through. Thomas has continued to be an outstanding co-pilot with Jeff as well.  He slept a lot today which was great since I think he's gotten very little in the past few weeks.  We've enjoyed swimming at each hotel in the evenings, so he's had some physical activity to help him "wind down" from the long days in the car. He's a really "easy" kiddo to travel with ... likes conversation and to look out the windows and daydream.  He doesn't get bored easily. He just needs his "stuff" which is whatever he chooses to take in the car for the day so he can make a "nest" of his toys and such around him in the Uhaul.  I tried to get him to ride with me for a while, but there's no getting him out of the big truck ... he loves sitting up high in the front seat and being "dad's co-pilot." Good times.

We drive to Pocatello tomorrow and it should take about 6 hours with the "convoy" we have. We're looking forward to getting things set up and establishing our routines as a family once we're settled after this week.  There are several 4th of July events in the Pocatello area so maybe we'll have enough unpacked and have the energy to celebrate!

I'm also looking forward to setting up my office at the university once our house is in order. I've submitted one article and hope to have another started soon. I'll be working diligently to write and research in an effort to get tenure over the next few years. Once school starts, I'm hoping to write a lot during the day and spend the evenings with Jeff and Thomas which is a welcomed change in our routines. I will teach two classes: Supervision - Monday nights and Intro to Superintendency - Wednesday nights. On those days, I'm hoping to do a little volunteer work at Thomas' school or at least have lunch with him frequently since we won't see each other in the evenings.  I look forward to establishing a routine and focusing on Thomas and Jeff and my work. 

Another Pocatello "activity" we plan to get involved with is through the Episcopal Church which feeds the hungry every Sunday afternoon.  The meal is prepared by parishioners and available to anyone in the community. The three of us plan to volunteer to be a part of that each Sunday and I think it's a great way for Thomas to understand "service" and also witness those who are truly in need and what we as a family can do to help.  He's already a very empathetic child and I think he's ready for "the next level" of understanding and experience when it comes to societal issues. He knows "needs" are out there, so now he will know what it is like to do something and give of himself to help others and address the needs around him.

We'll be without internet for a few days until we settle and get services connected, so I'm signing out for a while. 

Thanks for sharing in our journey and I hope whatever you're doing, you're happy doing it!

Sarah